Friends

I was just thinking about friendship and what it actually means to me and some of the people that I have called friend in the past and in the present. It's so crazy how people you where close to in middle school all the way through high school suddenly becomes invisble or nonexistent when you go away to college. what does that say about your friendship where you trully friends from the start or did ya'll just grow apart and if so at what point did that began to happen. One could get upset about these things but you have to look at your life and say how do the fit into the schema of my life will they deture me from the the path I am to walk on or will they encourage me to keep going and have my back. I think that is somthing to really consider. Also I think we should undersatnd that people are here in our life for only a season and after that it is time to let them go. I think the letting go is the hardest part because you feel so connected but I think also that after awhile the connection that you once felt fades away and it makes it much easier for you to let them go. However, God does put people in you life that will be there forever no matter what, people that you can always go to, and their feelings never change but stay the same. I think this is what will happen to me when my friend from college graduates this month, I think me and her have made a bonding friendship that will last a lifetime lord willing.I think we should seek God about the people that come in amd out our lives and who we let just stay there and become a hinderance to where we need to go. Ultimatly the truest friend we could ever have is Jesus!!!!!!!

Untill next time..................Catch the Mantle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~ SJF